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2008-09-22T09:49:00.000-07:00

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2008-08-24T11:05:00.000-07:00

human life is entangled every moment with these relationships!corevalues-relationship.jpg Relationships image by Benchmarkmortgage
what is there in these ships that everyone feel,
as if they are going on a different voyage in each relationship!
sometimes they float,relationships.png 44 image by xxjessabellex3
sometimes they drown,
sometimes they are caught in a cyclone,
sometimes they are caught in a lonely island!
there is something very deep in giving oneself into a relationship.
relationships are many,,,AddyRelations.png Relationships image by Addy_Cassotti
many come from birth itself,
some are made when we grow up!
there is a beauty,relationships.jpg Relationships image by poohgurl571
there is a commitment,
there is a love,
there is am empathy,
there is something deep and something shallow in every relation we are "in" with!relationships.jpg relationships image by ONYCK
we laugh with them,
we cry for them,
we are sometimes contented,
and many many times depressed,,,,
with our relationships.
but circumstances dictate them sometimes,
and situations serve their duties many times,,,
we just ignore the roots of every relation when we are in trouble with it!
we just ignore the future with "it"when we are happy with it!
we cling to the feelings and not to the impressions they make.
we cling to the commotions and not to the emotions they give.
give some time for every relation,,,
whether it is a relation,,,,in family,in love or in friendship.
and don't run into conclusions when something goes wrong.
we are human beings and to err is human,
cherish your best moments when in a confusion (with that relationship)meganne_forbes_sacred_relationshipS.jpg reaching for you image by lievholland
let the waters of your relationships be shallow when you are in a process of knowing each other.
let it reach the depth on its own,,,even though it takes long time.
complexities are many,RelationShips_by_gilad.jpg relationShips image by angel_bugs
but every relation is a God's gift,,,
handle with care,,,,,
"need"is just a worthless word in relationships,,
its the inner lovebackground.jpg relationships image by bbaarrnnsseeyy,respect,loyalty and empathy that helps you go on your sail......

relationships

2008-08-24T10:59:00.000-07:00

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human life is entangled every moment with these relationships!corevalues-relationship.jpg Relationships image by Benchmarkmortgage
what is there in these ships that everyone feel,
as if they are going on a different voyage in each relationship!
sometimes they float,relationships.png 44 image by xxjessabellex3
sometimes they drown,
sometimes they are caught in a cyclone,
sometimes they are caught in a lonely island!
there is something very deep in giving oneself into a relationship.
relationships are many,,,AddyRelations.png Relationships image by Addy_Cassotti
many come from birth itself,
some are made when we grow up!
there is a beauty,relationships.jpg Relationships image by poohgurl571
there is a commitment,
there is a love,
there is am empathy,
there is something deep and something shallow in every relation we are "in" with!relationships.jpg relationships image by ONYCK
we laugh with them,
we cry for them,
we are sometimes contented,
and many many times depressed,,,,
with our relationships.
but circumstances dictate them sometimes,
and situations serve their duties many times,,,
we just ignore the roots of every relation when we are in trouble with it!
we just ignore the future with "it"when we are happy with it!
we cling to the feelings and not to the impressions they make.
we cling to the commotions and not to the emotions they give.
give some time for every relation,,,
whether it is a relation,,,,in family,in love or in friendship.
and don't run into conclusions when something goes wrong.
we are human beings and to err is human,
cherish your best moments when in a confusion (with that relationship)meganne_forbes_sacred_relationshipS.jpg reaching for you image by lievholland
let the waters of your relationships be shallow when you are in a process of knowing each other.
let it reach the depth on its own,,,even though it takes long time.
complexities are many,RelationShips_by_gilad.jpg relationShips image by angel_bugs
but every relation is a God's gift,,,
handle with care,,,,,
"need"is just a worthless word in relationships,,
its the inner lovebackground.jpg relationships image by bbaarrnnsseeyy,respect,loyalty and empathy that helps you go on your sail......

independence to celebrate and retrospect!

2008-08-16T10:42:00.000-07:00

independence day to fill us with 60 yrs of everything we have,,,,

sare jaha se acha,hindustan hamara,,,,
this is the love for mother land that sprouted into a beautiful patriotic song.
jana gana mana adhi nayak jayahe,,,,,
this is the respect for the mother land that sprinkled harmony in the heart of every indian!
vande mataram,,,
this is the emotion for the mother land that spread vibrations of patriotism in every indian!
independence day,,,,

this means a lot to all of us.

hoisting the national flag,
saluting it,
singing national anthem in attention,
listening to speech of many leaders in various media,
celebrating the given freedom,,,,
which is worth so many lives and so many sacrifices,,,
worth so many families who lost their valuable moments with their family members,,,
worth so much of blood which flew,,just for the sake of our future!
its worth so much more,,,,
independence was the seed which was sown by them,,,
and now we see its fully branched huge tree,even though it has not been taken proper care of,,,,,by "us"!
let's lit the fire of patriotism again in our hearts,
let's spread the warmth of oneness once again!
let's sprinkle harmony everywhere just like the days in freedom struggle,
let's sow a passion for a "developed and prosperous India"in every heart and mind"!
our view should be one-development of the country in every good aspect!
our path should be one-towards harmony!
our dream should be one-to see " united India"
our destiny should be one-everlasting peace!
let's join our hands to work for it!
let's show the unity in diversity to reflect on the mirror of the world.

if the eyes had no tears

2008-08-16T07:10:00.000-07:00

IF THE EYES HAD NO TEARS..................... WHAT WOULD HAVE HAPPENNED?

What would have happened,

if the eyes had no tears?

would the vibrations of feelings,

burst out,breaking the hearts walls?

in the long running race of life,

when unexpected curves stand infront,

when every path is paved with thorns,

when grief&heavyness over weigh your heart,

what would have happenned,

if the heart had no tears?

when sorrow&disappointment occupy your world,

when heart is filled with uprooted cyclone,

when the one's you love go far away from you,

when there is no one to share your feelings,

what would have happenned to the heavy heart,

if the eyes had no tears?

when the heart is in commotion,

when your brain is in a state of bursting with anger,

when it becomes a thunderbolt,

when you are wounded with the missile of lonliness,

what would have happenned to your helplessness,

if the eyes had no tears?

when life turns tasteless,

when you are tired fighting the blues,

when your selfconfidence loses its grip,

when the rock built selfrespect shows cracks all along,

what would have happenned to your mental health,

if the eyes had no tears?

now,

did you realise my heart?

tears-lighten your heart,

tears- share your lonliness,

tears-melt your questions,

TEARS ARE THE BOON GIVEN BY GOD.

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2008-04-29T04:23:00.000-07:00

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2008-03-23T07:05:00.000-07:00

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Is there any human being without any problem?no naa?

everyone have woes,sorrows and tears...............................it's part of everyday life.

we don't count happiness as we do regarding these poor sorrows.

some people are very very sensitive to sorrows and griefs,getting tensed for every thing.

every single aspect,

every single thing,

seems as a firebowl or a furious hurricane................

they leave the optimism to air and drown deeply into pessimism.

they say that happiness is no where................!

and tell us that life is in equal trading with the hell..........!what to say?

they don't stop there........long way to go friends...................!

the minute they come in contact with a person,

there starts their talent to just sip that persons brain putting a straw of their sorrows deep into..............

problems at home&office.
childrens' noise
financial probs,

so on...............& on...............endless nonsense...............

nothing is not a problem to them.

they consider the first half of the quotation,"sorrow is halved and happiness is doubled when u share it with some one" for themselves and start eating the others brain.

but i wanna say few things here................................

u can share ur feelings,probs,with ur friends&relatives.
they can help u out with a solution.
but, if u do get into sipping everyone's brain matter,they can only develop a cheap feeling for u,and nothing else.
how can anyone who is not in better contact with ur probs,give u a good solution?
u will be stamped as an incapable person.
after sometime,they'll start running away,if they see u.............
or they'll turn their face,afraid of being seen by u........
then,u'll be a cartoon for them,to play jokes on..........

'LIFE IS A SONG,WITH ONE STANZA OF JOY AND ONE STANZA OF SORROW,IT'S A CYCLING SONG DEAR...........................

THERE'S NO STOP BUTTON UNTILL OUR DEATH.

NOTHING IS PERMANENT,NEITHER SORROW NOR JOY,

THEY GET REPEATED ONE AFTER THE OTHER................."

face every situation boldly and try to solve ur probs on ur own,bcoz,no one else can know abt ur prob,better than u.
invest time in soving rather than sprinkling it on others.
don't spoil ur health but think positive.

THINGS WILL BE MORE SMOOTH IF U TRY THIS.................

U'LL BE HAVING A BRIGHT INDIVIDUALITY,WHICH CAN BE INSPIRATION TO LOT MORE PEOPLE.......

am i right?

go into ur life...................

believing in urself.

STREET CHILDREN

2008-03-23T06:57:00.000-07:00

eventhough the fire tangles them inside their heart,

eventhough kindless hunger twists their stomach,

eventhough rain,heat &cold,

show no mercy on their lean bodies,

which are left out without clothes,

they are dragging their lives,

reforming into living corpses,

breathing life into their dying hearts............

street children..............

the one's victimized by the fate........

when chidhood frightens them as a ghost,

when insecurity shadows them wherever they go...

one......seeing no path,

one......for a path,

steps towards the pit of sin..........

stepping towards the huge fire bowl,

to over come the thorns of sorrows,

those little hands...........

few pick up the waste papers,

few do the domestic work,

few cut the pockets,

few turn to ammunition in the hands of anti social elements,

for a little circle of that stomach,

childhood being dragged to the nadir,

the little hearts,

where,poison of hatred is nurtured,

against the society,which scoffs at them............

are the one's in the schools are the children,

not these?

are they not the future citizens?

are they not eligible for our help?

don't these kids with a heart of mirror,

reflect our incapability to cope up with this problem?

"we r not the government,

we r not the landlords,

we r not the billioneers,

we r not the social workers",

this is what "we",the comman people say,

when we look at the problem.............................

can't we just admit them in any organisation which helps such kids?

can't we just show them a right path?

let's think for a while and reform ourselves..........................

| LOVE UNLIMITED.....................

2008-03-14T03:44:00.000-07:00

Life takes a biiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiig turn,

when you fall in love.

it's just a magic wand,

which reforms you totally.

journey of love goes on in a green meadow,

if it follows the following pluses.................

want to go through?

see for yourself........................

attraction+
love+
affection+
understanding+
accepting all short comings with honesty+
getting into a marriage+
enjoying life+
sharing responsibilities equally+
managing relations with positive attitude+
not losing balance in any grief+
sharing each and every feeling with your spouse+
being honest to your loving one.....................

what else yaar...................?

u r on the track of a wonderful love life...................

all the best.

QUESTIONING IS AN ART DEAR.........

2008-03-12T03:58:00.000-07:00

we meet so many people everyday.

we speak to many people known or strangers too.

we ask questions,to know about some information.

we answer the questions asked by some people.

from the time we get up early in the morning,it starts with the milkman,and goes on....................

our family members/colleagues/neighbours etc.,&etc.,.........................................

no end for conversations................isn't it?

now u r angry.what's all this abt?

many people doesn't know how to extract the information they want,from others.

they just aim the questions at the other person,

without ........

understanding his mental state,

understanding his feelings

and they try to beat out the self esteem.

they mingle up the answer they want to hear,in their question itself.

they should know some fundamental things on how to ask questions.

when the other person doesn't know,why we have asked him,he may doubt you.

so make him clear,your goal.

give him the value,according to his expressions.

don't put soooooooooooooooo many questions at a time.

don't hurry up him to give him his answer.

questions like"is it not what i think?","did it happenned how i thought?"etc.,can give only yes or no as answers.they can even put the actual answer hidden.so,don't question like that.......

questions put,which hit the ego/selfrespect of the other,may inculcate dislike for you,in his heart.so,don't..........................

accept the truth that every person has his own thoughts,opinions,just like you do...

"A CONVERSATION SHOULD LEAD TO FRIENDSHIP OR SHOULD ENHANCE THE DEPTH OF FRIENDSHIP,BUT IT SHOULD NOT BREAK THEM"

that's all for now............

catch up next..........bye....................

TENSION OF LIFE FOR A SETTLEMENT

2008-03-11T04:56:00.000-07:00

I felt so bad when i saw a young chap,turn into a chest pain today.

the reason was not a family problem,

nor a love story,

nor anything that could turn into a chest pain.

it was just a competitive exam phobia................

what to say?

is it not the today's system that is manipulating a

"settled life"

'to be just dream and a flower in the high skies.............

how sad is it that,youth are so insecure today.............

they are everyday in a dilemma.

giving every moment a tensed picture in their mind,

a job.................................................................................

this is all that kills their sunny days and got to be beautiful moments.

tension,tension,tension........

what to say?

UNIVERSAL HUMAN LOVE.....

2008-03-10T06:54:00.000-07:00

It carries the pigeon of peace,

on it's shoulders,

it fills our lives with,

everyday beauty and light,

it wipes out the enemity permanently,

LOVE-it's the world known word.

It is a touch of god,

it is a smile of friendship,

it is the giver of joy and happiness,

it fills our days with merry thoughts,

it makes our dreams come true,

LOVE-it's the world known feeling.

It's beside you always,

it's god's commandment,

it proves that,nothing is alone in this world,

it touches every warm memory in the heart,

it brings so much of difference in everyone's life,

LOVE-it's world known touch.

It breaks all barriers between the hearts,

it welcomes with a flowerpath,

it unites the nations to one,

it enhances the unity and friendship,

it wipes out every misunderstanding.

LOVE-it's the world known era...............................

HEART

2008-03-09T11:32:00.000-07:00

Heart is the seat of all emotions and pains,

Heart is the flower with petals of joy and thorns of woes..................

oh!what to say,

everything matters with this,

every matter connects with this.

oh!what to say,

it's as precious as a life,

it's as beautiful as a moon.

oh!what to say,

it's everything,

it's every breath........................

A NEW DAWN

2008-03-08T23:56:00.000-08:00

When a drop of happiness,

becomes a wave in the ocean,

and tries to touch the sky,

the whole heart raises high,

to run in jumps,,

breath jumps to joy,

and hums a rocking tune.......................

when a moment of sorrow,

becomes an ocean and occupies the earth,

steps forward,

to destroy the life,

darkness occupies the same old heart,

like a disastrous night.,

and awaits for a new dawn,

with dreams in the palms..................

life is like that baby,

there is a tear after a smile,

and viceversa.

there is a sorrow after a joy,

and viceversa.

this is life,

mingled with light and darkness,

this is life,

mingled with lonliness and togetherness.

enjoy it,when u r happy,

weep for it,when u r in grief,

but keep ur balance and cool at anytime,

at any stage....................

bye for now.....................

COMPASS

2008-03-08T23:52:00.000-08:00

In the life's sky,
go on with determination,
always flying high,
hailing from every situation.
set your compass,
get..set..go.....

life according to you

2008-03-07T19:37:00.000-08:00

life according to you
life is like a garden
when you are a flower.

life is like the sun
when you are a planet.

life is like a breeze
when you are a feeling.

life is like a storm
when you are a wreck.

life is like a cyclone
when you are alone.

life is like a song
when you are a word.

seasons come and go
earth remains the same.

situations come and go
your individuality should never be in blame.

these three words
will,work and success
between lies the life of man."

: all in the life's game

2008-03-07T19:32:00.000-08:00

all in the life's game: "all in the life's game
hai friends,
misunderstandings are the the very commonly occuring things in life.

never feel bad for them.
try your best to wipe them out.
and if your trail fails,wait and see.....
time will cure everything.
it is not your fault that someone misunderstands you with false base.
if ur fault is there,accept with all honesty.
bye for now......"

get into a curve

2008-03-07T11:09:00.000-08:00

get into a curve
in a long lifer road,we find so many curves which give us new experience everyday.come on face every curve with positive attitude"

2008-03-07T11:05:00.000-08:00

curve: i am helpless

2008-03-07T11:02:00.000-08:00

curve: i am helpless: "how can we understand people?
it's such a big mess.isn't it?
i feel the same.
people we know for years together,seem a stranger sometimes.why?
i think,it depends on the circumstances they face along with us.
many people can't stand on their shoe....they are helpless due to their weak individuality.
a person who can stand on his shoe erect eventhough it hurts,it pains,
aperson who can set his problem,not bending to circumstances wins laurels.
but how many such people can u see?
do u see urself in ur shoe?
think about it................................"

THIS IS LOVE-IS THIS?

2008-03-07T10:58:00.000-08:00

love is eternal,
love is undescribable,
love is unique,
love is life,
love is the breath.

so,what not is love?
everything is love..........

meeting a person,
liking that person for something which makes you see again,
talking to him/her,
sharing thoughts,
getting close,
proposing love,
roaming all over (movies,parks,etc.,),
setting yourself into heroism/heroinism when parents restrict your love,
in any way(eloping/convincing parents etc.,)getting married,
setting on a family,
enjoying life,
what else..............?
is life over?

struggle starts.......................
when the life's real scene comes into the picture.

immature love turns into a dragon,
when it starts facing strife's of life.
it starts opposing the,so so so loved partner.
everything seems bitter,
every situation seems a horror,
you just start withdrawing from the promises you made to your partner,before marriage,
you just start cursing your life,for a wrong decision,
and then the real mess of life unweils..................
getting both of you into a troublesome life,
into a splitting relation,
or into a life of compramise..........which is a real hell.

SO GUY'S THIS IS LOVE..............
IS THIS?

not at all.............................................
so what is love yaar?
it's not that complicated as it seems,
it's not that simple as it seems,
love is a universal feeling..........not confined to any relation.

love is a feeling of oneness,
love is a feeling of togetherness,
love is a bond,which is not bound by any seen thread,
love is a word,which entangles every sense of pious thing with it,
love is sacrifice,not selfish,
love is the whole individual,not just heart,

what should we do ,so as to be a loving couple ,
before binding into a couple is the question...
right?
let's get into it tomorrow.
keep your mind thinking about the points mentioned above untill then......................................
bye for now.....

BEING AN IDEAL COUPLE

2008-03-07T10:56:00.000-08:00

let's know about how a couple can be an ideal couple for ever.

you may select a person who fits your personality or you may love a person who is entirely different from your's.that's not at all the matter.
what ever may be his whole personality...........love him with all your heart.
everyone has positive points.
everyone has negative points.
accept your partner with all his qualities.
love him/her for what he/she is,but not for what he/she has.
never nurture misunderstandings.
feel free to discuss any matter,with positive attitude.
care for your partner when he/she is sick.it strengthens your bond.
try to understand each other wholly,that no problem arises in future.
take as much time you need to understand eachother.
give up "EGO"in your relation,in a way that it never returns,whatever the situation may be.
these are the 12 golden sentenses which,when implemented,makes your life a bed of roses, with your partner.
look into yourself whether you can do the above things,and get started for a loving life,where love is your heart and soul and your partner is the whole of yourself.
bye for now........................
live the life of a understanding couple.

I AM ON MY WAY

2008-03-07T10:52:00.000-08:00

in the long lifer road,
the journey is really tough.
there are many obstacles,
but i have a spike of confidence,
to get them aside.
there are many thorns of sorrows,
but i have a fire of determination,
which burns them to ashes.
there are many tears,
but i have mop of strength,
which wipes them out.

i am the king of my life,
and thats decided.
what ever may be the threat,
i am on my way to reach my destiny.

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2008-03-07T10:44:00.000-08:00

(0 unread) Yahoo! Mail, ebangarకొండకోనలు,వాగువంకలుభయంకరమైన అరణ్యాలుఎండి చెదిరిన ఎడారులుతుఫానులో చిక్కిన నావలవంటి రోజులనుఎన్ని దాటానో లెక్కలేదు..ఎడతెగని ప్రయాణంపుట్టుక నుండి మరణం వరకుతోలి శ్వాస నుండి దేవుని తుది తీర్పు వరకువసంతం నుండి శిశిరం వరకుభువి నుండి అఖాతం వరకువివిధ పదాలు పంచిన వివిధ అనుభవాలతోఎద తెగని ప్రయాణంనను వెలిగించిన కాంతికిరణాలునా కన్నిటిని రుచి చూసిన నిసిధులుప్రేమపాత్రమైన బంధాలుద్రోహం చేసిన అనుబంధాలుసుఖడుఖాల దోబుసులాతతోఎద తెగని ప్రయాణంనుదుటిన బలవంతాన అడ్డబడిన కలంకతిలకంతిరిగీ కత్తి అంచు అయి మెరిసిన వ్యక్తిత్వంనిందాస్తుతులు,శాంతిఅశాంతులుగెలుపుఓతములు,మనఃస్సాక్షి ఆహాల మధ్యనిన్న,నేడు,రిపుల ఆటలతోఎద తెగని ప్రయాణం--Posted By curve to curve at 2/29/2008 07:37:00 AM
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OFF THE COAST

2008-03-07T10:19:00.000-08:00

when we have any problem,we brood over it.some people just withdraw themselves from the existing world.
they create their own world of lonliness and bizzare.
is it a right thing to do?
never.
if it continues for a long time,it'll be hard for them to mingle with the society once again.
their world can only give tears,depression and lifelessness.
living on coast(with the society),gives u a solution.
but if u go off the coast,in search of wilderness,
only one thing can happen dear,
YOU WILL DROWN.
so fight with ur problems on the coast itself.
face them with courage,
solve them with wisdom.
but always on the coast...........................
bye for now...............................................

I AM THE KING

2008-03-05T10:46:00.000-08:00

i am the king,
for my life,
for my life's path.

conscience is my kingminister,
confidence is my bodyguard,
sharp brain is my chiefminister.

values are my armour,
bravery is my ammunition,
individuality is my body.

liberty is my horse,
responsibility is my anchor,
will is my army.

i am a nonvexing worker towards my destination,
i am a pious path traveller,
i am the peak of the mountain,which flags her victory.

i am the king,
for my life,
for my life's path.

its a new day

2008-03-02T09:09:00.000-08:00

its a new day.but why?is it not like the same one as yesterday?
no...no...no...
its really a new day as it has an essense of freshness,
its really a new day as it has an energy of positive attitude.
what about yours dear?
trust me,this life is so beautiful,
when lived with positive attitude dude,
just try a day not losing your p.a and you will be more thankful to god for giving u this life......
bye for now......

fragrance of life

2008-03-01T13:04:00.000-08:00

life is such a beautiful boon.isn't it?
lets start enjoying its fragrance from tomorrow............
bye for now..................