QUESTIONING IS AN ART DEAR.........

we meet so many people everyday.

we speak to many people known or strangers too.

we ask questions,to know about some information.

we answer the questions asked by some people.

from the time we get up early in the morning,it starts with the milkman,and goes on....................

our family members/colleagues/neighbours etc.,&etc.,.........................................

no end for conversations................isn't it?

now u r angry.what's all this abt?

many people doesn't know how to extract the information they want,from others.

they just aim the questions at the other person,

without ........

understanding his mental state,

understanding his feelings

and they try to beat out the self esteem.

they mingle up the answer they want to hear,in their question itself.

they should know some fundamental things on how to ask questions.

• when the other person doesn't know,why we have asked him,he may doubt you.


• so make him clear,your goal.


• give him the value,according to his expressions.


• don't put soooooooooooooooo many questions at a time.


• don't hurry up him to give him his answer.


• questions like"is it not what i think?","did it happenned how i thought?"etc.,can give only yes or no as answers.they can even put the actual answer hidden.so,don't question like that.......


• questions put,which hit the ego/selfrespect of the other,may inculcate dislike for you,in his heart.so,don't..........................


• accept the truth that every person has his own thoughts,opinions,just like you do...

"A CONVERSATION SHOULD LEAD TO FRIENDSHIP OR SHOULD ENHANCE THE DEPTH OF FRIENDSHIP,BUT IT SHOULD NOT BREAK THEM"

that's all for now............

catch up next..........bye....................